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"Out of shame, we deny that our habit of excessively exploiting nature and each other underlies our personal, social and environmental disorders.  Natural Attraction Ecology enlists nature's self-correcting powers to help us recognize our denial, remedy our disorders and increase well-being."  
.....- MJC


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Natural Attraction Ecology

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Those who recognize that humanity is part of nature often overlook this monumental fact: the picture, below, is a photograph of you and I before we were conceived. It is also a picture of our subconscious mind.

"A short, renewing walk in a natural area demonstrates this major scientific truth of our lives: when we respectfully visit a natural area, our 53 natural senses contain attractions to connect us with the self-correcting grace, balance and purifying power of our origins in nature.  This nurturance therapeutically helps us restore our subdued natural senses. It energizes their sensibilities into our consciousness so we can think, feel and enjoy more sensibly."

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The Origins of Project NatureConnect and Natural Attraction Ecology


....In 1959, Dr. Michael J. Cohen founded an extraordinary expedition school. Eminating in 1946 from Progressive Camping and Josh Lieberman's Creative Camping programs, it was based on learning how to genuinely connect with nature as community, with the flow of our living Earth, in and around us.
....Through natural attraction sensations and feelings that were energized into consciousness through sensory contacts in natural areas, young or old, students and staff alike learned to respect the web-of-life community and themselves. Nature taught them to enjoy, validate and incorporate the self-correcting wisdom of the web in their thinking and feeling.
....The National Audubon Society identified this program as the most revolutionary school in America. In it:
....Chemical dependencies, including alcohol and tobacco, disappeared as did destructive social relationships.
....Personality and eating disorders subsided; violence, crime and prejudice were unknown.
....Academics improved because they were applicable, hands-on and fun.
....Loneliness, hostility and depression subsided. Group interactions encouraged stress release and management; each day was fulfilling and relatively peaceful.
....Participants using meditation found they could enhance it, or not need it, as they helped build their nature-connected community.
....Participants knew each other better than they knew their families or best friends. They felt safe and developed the resilience to express and act from their deeper thoughts and feelings. A profound sense of social and environmental responsibility guided their decisions.
....When vacation periods arrived, neither staff nor student wanted to go home. Each person had enjoyably worked to build this supportive, balanced living and learning group. They were home.
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Greetings Honored Guest,
 
We Welcome Your Inquiring Mind and Heart
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Thank you for your interest in visiting this website.

Your attraction to this page suggests that you have a rare, but extraordinary, natural consciousness. It is a consciousness that refuses to be overwhelmed by the shortcomings in Industrial Society and that also refuses to give up your attraction to live in, and contribute to, a healthier world in peace.

Natural Attraction Ecology (NAE) is dedicated to helping you empower your whole-life way of thinking so that you may further increase
personal, social and environmental well being.

You, no doubt, recognize that most people are not born with the outrageous problems that we in Industrial Society produce, that, instead, we are educated to produce them. In addition, you are probably aware that our social and environmental troubles are continuing to grow in unison because they hold a destructive source
in common. The source is a prejudicial disconnection from nature that we seldom identify or address.
 
Project NatureConnect's accredited NAE courses, degrees and results offer you a therapeutic preventative and remedy for many problems that we suffer.  It will help you increase well-being and reduce these problems by helping you correct their source.
 You may add it to any relationship or livelihood.





Connecting With Nature

"My daily walks take my dog Petey and me through some old Pennsylvania woods.
Not too long ago, it was easy for me to have had so much going on in my mind that I hardly even noticed, much less appreciated, everything that was going on in nature around me. Other times, having felt no connection to the natural world, I'd come home thinking maybe I needed to find a more stimulating walking route.
 
Sound familiar?   

Lately, however, my walks have taken on a whole new   dimension. I feel like a little kid in a candy shop when I venture outside in the morning, thanks to some activities I learned from Michael J. Cohen, EdD, when he recently met with several Prevention Magazine staff members.

Dr. Cohen practices and teaches Applied Ecopsychology, a new area of psychology that views people as profoundly affected by the natural world. Dr. Cohen is also the author of Reconnecting With Nature (Ecopress, 1997).

He taught us some activities that felt so relaxing and inspiring that we asked him to help us design some for you to try while walking in your neck of the woods.

These exercises are designed to help awaken or sharpen senses you probably haven't paid much attention to. The activities help you recognize more strongly, through direct experience, that you're a part of nature, not apart from it.

Dr. Cohen feels that this recognition helps people "learn to make healthier decisions for themselves and their environments."   In other words, he hopes people can make a profound connection between their psychological health, their sense of well-being and the health of the environment around them by becoming aware of--without talking--all the sensory experiences nature offers.  

The value of these exercises lies solely in what you experience when you do them. If you just read them, they may seem, quite simply, silly. But if you do them and have fun, as we did, you may find a whole new pleasure and energy in taking your daily walks outdoors.

As I did these exercises, I found at times that I didn't trust my own reactions. That's when sharing your feelings or insights with a friend or a group really helps. If you don't have a partner, share your experiences with me or on an online nature-connection course."
 

- Maggie Spillner, Editor
Walker's World, Prevention Magazine (1997)
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SYNOPSIS

THE POWER OF PURE SCIENCE

Attraction is universal and natural. We observe that it pulls or holds things together, be they the nucleus of an atom, our body, our mind, any "thing," or the solar system and far beyond.

That the galaxies increase their speed outward, along with other evidence, suggests that an attractive force, perhaps at the boundary of the universe, or from the inflationary big-bang, is a primary source of the energy in the Universe.  

Even an athiest might agree that in our universe, something like "God" actualizes himself or herself as natural attraction that is found everywhere.


The natural world neither produces our garbage and pollution nor the many other problems that result from our excessiveness. This is because nature's purifying attraction powers are self-correcting.  They organize, sustain and grow the natural world, including us, in a healthy attractive balance. In it, things are unified. They belong and depend upon each others attractive contribution to the whole.

As part of nature, humanity inherits nature's attraction to, in peace, support and restore optimal life relationships.

However, a warped prejudice against nature story in contemporary thinking unbalances us. It makes our consciousness reject and lose contact with the therapeutic and renewing attraction ways of natural systems, in and around us.

Due to our disrespectful bias against nature's embrace, our loss of sensory fulfillment from nature's renewing ways produces a hole in our psyche. This void leaves us wanting and greedy. In turn, we become excessive and insensitive.  Out of control, we invade and deteriorate personal, social and environmental well-being.

The pure, empirical science of Natural Attraction Ecology (NAE) helps us address our detrimental prejudice against nature. It empowers us to beneficially reduce our greed and our excessive stress and abusiveness by genuinely connecting our psyche, including our 53 natural senses, to our ever-purifying origins in nature, backyard or backcountry. 

The process of our NAE re-connection to the natural world enables the attractive grace of nature's renewing ways to help us reduce our bias against them and relate more sensibly. It empowers us to think and feel like nature's balance works to sustain well-being.  

A short walk in the park is a temporary "fix" that demonstrates the beneficial effects of nature on our psyche.  We seldom recognize that this contact with a natural area is not simply getting away from our problems.  What we actually do is temporarily connect the nature of our psyche to its self-correcting origins in nature's balance and beauty.  

The attitude and process of Natural Attraction Ecology provides us with a fully objective science. It benefits our lives by enabling our thinking to habitually make nature-connection a permanent and therapeutic way of thinking and feeling. It teaches us how to continually connect our psyche to nature's healing ways and strengthen both in the process.



INTRODUCTION


Although we live in a tecnologically successful human society, we suffer because its undue disdain for nature and the natural excessively exploits the whole of life.

Like a cancer, our distortion of, and assault on, nature produces a wide range of life-problems and disorders, in and around us. This is because we are part of nature. Nature flows through us.

For example:


1.Under optimum conditions, a ball, in its balanced perfection, will roll true on its course. 

2. If we take an excessive slice out of the ball, neither the slice nor the ball will roll true. Neither will function properly (dysfunction) because they will have been separated and lost their integrity.   Fulfillments they may have enjoyed from their mutually beneficial attraction and support for each other will have disappeared.

3. The excessive slice will cause things that are connected to either the injured ball or to the slice, to suffer the disorders that develop.



Natural Attraction Ecology helps us recognize that natural attractions hold together the life and spirit of a very special ball, the planetary globe that we call Earth. It has, and has enjoyed through the eons, its own balanced perfection, beauty and integrity (Axiom 9, below).

NAE also helps us recognize that we are part of our living planet's very nature. For this reason, when we think poorly about, or act adversely to, the workings of Earth and its systems, we separate ourselves from the whole-earth community. With the loss of its integrity and nurturing, we become "excessive slices."

We cause hurtful problems for the natural world and for ourselves.  


Our misguided thinking and relationships with Earth have, by using  incomplete and faulty science, increasingly socialized us to live as excessive slices from our planetary ball.

Our faulted science motivates us to slice through the self-correcting attractions that flow through and unify our planetary home. This separation produces
injurious personal, social and environmental disorders. It erodes our mental health. It goads us into paving over paradise for a profit. 

With respect to living in balance with Earth, our thinking is bewildered (meaning separated from naturally attractive wilderness values and ways).
It does not know how to reconnect the separated slice we have made of ourselves and our society.  

Like a short circuit, because our disorders try to protect us from further harm, we seldom acknowledge that we are excessive slices and that we sustain our disorders by remaing excessive.  Those of us who do recognize this phenomenon and respond to it by reconnecting our psyche to the web-of-life, benefit accordingly and help others and Earth benefit through the reconnecting process. However, society often looks askance at us.

To help us deal with the distortion in our science and technology, as well as in our thoughts, feelings and acts, 
Natural Attraction Ecology provides us with momentous truths and restorative activities. They root our psyche back in the balancing, self-correcting ways of our planet and nature.

The NAE process gives us the means to reunite the slice and the ball.

NAE is a unique, organic science because it is entrenched in how natural systems work. It helps us overcome the prejudice in Industrial Society's limited thinking, a bias that separates long-established and vital natural attraction relationships. Again, it is this separation that produces our society's
unbalanced imitations of, and harmful substitutes for, nature's renewing grace.  

NAE is sometimes controversial. It disturbs our ego, our self-image, simply because it reflects that we habitually perpetrate a destructive distortion that we know is unreasonable, yet we can't stop.

The lie that we practice is for our thinking and ego to deny that all of nature is attraction-based and vital, and that this attraction includes our natural attraction senses and feelings.  For example, our sense or sensation of thirst is an observable and felt attraction fact. It attracts us to water.  It just as real, true and important as is water itself. Both are essential parts of nature in balance. Both make sense and are part of life's survival. Yet we learn to believe we only have five senses and thirst is not one of the five.

The sense/sensation of thirst is seldom included as part of our planet's global water cycle, yet it is.

In addition to thirst, our reasoning omits another 47 natural attraction senses. We say that they undermine scientific objectivity, that they are subjective,  flakey or granola.

Is it any wonder that by omitting the value of our natural attraction senses, with respect to living in balance with nature in and around us, our lives are non-sense?


"Scientific research is based on the idea that everything that takes place is determined by laws of nature, and therefore this holds for the action of people."

- Albert Einstein



It is a central concept in science and the scientific method that all evidence must be empirical, or empirically based, in other words, not simply theoretical, spiritual or "as if" conclusions. Valid scientific data is derived from our experiences or observations.  It is dependent on evidence or consequences that are observable by the senses.

- Wikipedia Encyclopedia

History

Originally, in the 1940's, and
at that time very controversial, the science of Ecology discovered life relationships to be built largely on food chains. This, over time, grew into Ecology becoming the study of local and global natural systems and their flow.

Today, researchers additionally observe that, from atoms to materials to solar systems, everything is held together in a balanced ecological unity by many kinds of natural attractions, attractions such as gravity, magnetism, valence bonds, strong forces and desires.

Many of these natural attractions register in human consciousness as at least 53 natural senses. They can be our senses and sensations of thirst, of community or of place and many more. These natural senses, individually and in congress, help our thinking be aware of, and
appropriately relate to, the natural world. For example, if we don't relate appropriately to our natural attraction sense of gravity, we end up collapsing to the ground and we are unable to get up.  The attraction sense of gravity is obviously real and important, yet we do not include it as one of the five senses by which we say we know and relate to the world.  

Again, the way we learn to think and feel also omits signals from 47 additional natural senses. We lose much of the sense, sensitivity and sensations we need to solve our senseless problems.


Contribution


Experts in most fields often identify the many problems our society suffers, but they seldom offer effective solutions that help us deal with these problems effectively.  For this reason, we continue to suffer them.

The genius of NAE is that it, via our natural attraction senses, accurately identifies the misguided source of our unbalance and disorders. It also provides us with a readily available process that helps us deal with that source.  
  
NAE is a scientific methodology,
an enabling tool that empowers us to experience and explore our natural senses and their contributions to living in balance. It helps us think, feel and relate sensitively and sensibly because it includes the self-correcting powers of earth and nature, in their natural perfectiondescribed below.

Using the proven methods and materials developed, since 1959, by Dr. Michael J. Cohen and his students at Project NatureConnect, NAE helps us increase well-being at every level. It accomplishes this by helping our reasoning, thoughts and feelings genuinely tap into the balancing attraction ways and spirit of authentic nature and its systems, backyard or backcountry. 


As we think and learn in natural areas from real-life, sensory biofeedback experiences, the organic process of NAE empowers us to beneficially recycle and transform the garbage and contaminates that seep into our psyche from Industrial Society. This gives our thinking the ability to reasonably guide all our relationships for it then includes the sensory and restorative wisdom of natural systems and their flow, in and around us.

The crucial contribution of NAE is that, unlike most disciplines, it is whole and true because it is based on empirical observations and attraction evidence that we directly experience in natural areas, backyard or backcountry. It helps us learn to adequately understand and deal with our problems, in and from direct connections to nature and its balanced intelligence. (see examples, below)

In summary, the NAE process helps us increase well-being by validating unadulterated factual input from our 
53 inborn natural senses. These senses are self-organized, self-balancing (homeostatic), sensory attraction ways of knowing that we register and share with the web-of-life. They connect our thinking with nature's wise integrity. This provides us with authentic, critically important facts of life that closeted "objective" science and academics usually reject as the "dazed" or "fuzzy thinking" of "Earth Muffins."  

"Truth is what stands the test of experience."

- Albert Einstein


How NAE Works

By energizing our 53 natural senses while we are in natural areas, NAE helps our thinking make genuine conscious sensory contact with the attraction essence that we hold in common with the global life community. It enables us to tap into the ways and wisdom of authentic nature so that we can make greater sense of our lives and reverse our unbalanced nonsense.


Consider this example concerning our natural sense of trust: if you are reading this information on or from a computer, your natural attraction sense of trust is in play. You are attracted to trust that the words on this screen can give you information. You may not trust what the words here say, but you trust that they can provide important knowledge. Otherwise why would you be paying attention to them here? 

What you really are attracted to trust here is the logic and value of the scientific method. You trust the intelligence of the reasonable thinking and technology that discovered the power of a computer and the use of electronic communication to convey information. It works. It contributes and has value if it is applied in a way that is fair and benefits all. That is attractive and it makes sense so it naturally releases Dopamine and feels good. That is how nature works with all our natural senses, singly or in congress.

In NAE, the application of this same trustable scientific thinking process, has helped us discover how and why Industrial Society is excessively destructive. In addition, it provides us with a powerful thought and action process that enables us to reverse our detrimental ways and the damage they inflict.  For this reason, it makes sense to pay attention to NAE, to respect and benefit from the holism of its scientific methodology.

NAE is a true root and basis for what theoreticians or spiritualists sometimes call "ecopsychology" or "ecotherapy."



Natural Attraction Ecology is effective because:

- it sees that contemporary people seldom realize they are citizens of two different civilzations:

1. The non-literate global web-of-life community of "nature," that consists of the plant, animal and mineral biological kingdoms, including humanity.

2. The literate, human life community of Industrial Society


- it recognizes that nature alone, not the theoretician or professor, is the fountainhead of authority about how nature works to produce its balance and beauty.


- it notes that we suffer our great problems because we spend over 98 percent of our time, thinking and feeling while separated from nature's self-correcting grace and its feel-good, regenerative, attraction ways.

- it observes that over 18,000 hours of our impressionable childhood years are spent indoors in school, disconnected from nature's wisdom.

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it makes us aware that when our 53 natural senses are inadequately fulfilled, we lose natural joy and we experience natural attraction deprivation. We want, and when we want there is never enough. This unfulfilled need spawns our stress, greed, anxiety, depression and self-esteem disorders. It goads us to become excessive and trespass natural boundaries. Being out of natural sensory balance, our thinking and feeling create the nonsense that causes most personal social and environmental problems.

- it enables us to identify and correct the heart of our problems, our unwarranted demeaning of nature. This destructive bias in our thinking makes us disconnect ourselves from the healing and recuperative benefits of nature's purifying flow, in and around us

  

"Ishi, (the last hunter-gather Native American) was sure he knew the cause of our discontent. It stemmed from an excessive amount of indoor time. 'It is not a man's nature to be too much indoors."

- Theodora Kroeber


Website Contents

This website presents an outline of the ways and means of 
Natural Attraction Ecology along with links to additional information about NAE that is found in the books, courses and websites of Dr. Michael Cohen and Project NatureConnect at the Institute of Global Education.  

This information has been published, peer reviewed, accredited and verified by professionals and cooperating universities. Its confirming research is the core of several graduate and undergraduate degree programs. Its sixty years of experience is described, referenced and defended by Dr. Cohen in his trade published Ph.D. dissertation Educating Counseling and Healing With Nature (Illumina).


Consider Dr. Cohen's description of NAE that he contributed to the transition team of Barack Obama: 

Ideally, what we should do.  How to Create Sensible Change and Responsible Economics.

OUR CHALLENGE: 150 million people x $20,000 per person equals $3,000,000,000,000, (three trillion dollars).  That amount, and more, is what the "bailout" for the "recession" is going to cost in the USA.  However, that money is mostly being given to Wall Street, to banks and industry and systems where its contribution disappears as it feeds our nature-biased thinking and economics, where it is gobbled up by the greed and the nature-conquering Ego of our society's leadership.  

Think about what life would be like if, instead, twenty thousand dollars was paid to each of 150 million individuals (half the USA population) once they passed our short, free, Natural Attraction Ecology online course Educating, Counseling and Healing With Nature.

The NAE balancing process that the course teaches scientifically removes our detrimental bonds to nature-exploitive relationships with people and places. It accomplishes this by helping the psyche and thinking of an individual become healthier, naturally fulfilled and less wanting, hurt, and greedy.

With nature's self-correcting assistance:

We would reduce disorders and addictions along with health costs and asocial behavior.

We would increase mental health and cooperation locally and globally. 

Each individual would learn how to gain deep satisfactions by wisely spending that three trillion dollars in self-supporting, balanced ways, ways that strengthened our economy by increasing personal, social and environmental well-being.

Each individual could easily achieve and, as well, teach and strengthen this great turning process because they owned the free NAE tools that enabled them to do so. 

Isn't this a worthwhile goal for our personal lives and society?  Isn't this the education and change that we want? Isn't it attractive?

By learning and teaching NAE, any of us can begin to make it happen.


Students of Natural Attraction Ecology have added its process to, and enhanced, most professions and disciplines (listed below). This is especially true for students who have used it in conjunction with: natural history, ecopsychology, ecotherapy, biology, creative writing, hypnotherapy, Native American studies, art therapy, energy medicine, Reiki, love of nature, shaminism, Yoga, parenting, spirituality, relaxation, mid life crisis, increasing hope, conversation strategies and finding higher power.

The attraction these individuals hold in common is that they are, or have learned to become, enlightened appreciators of nature and its attractiveness. They deeply love, respect and benefit from the self-correcting ways of natural systems and our planetary home, Earth. 



   

Significant Properties of  Natural Attraction Ecology (NAE)

NOTE: The links found in the paragraphs, below, take you to additional information about the topic of the paragraph. The major source of the linked information is located online at http://www.ecopsych.com/ksanity.html as well as in the trade published edition or free online E-book Educating, Counseling and Healing With Nature (ECHN).  It is also part of the Project NatureConnect website http://www.ecopsych.com and About.Com.

The Axioms of NAE
Nature-connected axioms are an essence of NAE that are rooted in the fundamental that humanity is part of nature. They are empirical statements that arise from us considering our felt sense experiences with nature in and around us.  "I can see that the sun is shining" or "I enjoyed feeling the tree vibrate in the wind" or "The fields are green and beautiful," or "I love my dog and I see and feel he loves me," are examples of NAE axioms. 
Because NAE axioms come into language directly through the truth conveyed and registered through two or more of our 53 natural senses together, the axioms are pure and self-evident. For this reason they significantly add to scientific thinking and they are universally factual, as is life itself. 
Felt sense axioms help our thinking reverse the distortions that mislead us into becoming destructively sliced away from our living planet and its attraction for unity and wellness. 
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*see ECHN Page 28
"The senses, being the explorers of the world, open the way to knowledge."

- Maria Montessori.
"Feelings are the truth, we don't live in the real world when we ignore what we are feeling."
- David Viscott  
NAE axioms are as accurate as the fact that you can see this page and are reading these words right now. This fact is true because the page purely connects and registers directly in your psyche via many natural senses and feelings. These include your/our senses of color, of contrast, of sight, shape, consciousness, trust, place, reason, language, distance, motion, curiosity, beauty and space.
"Our abstract thinking is no more reasonable or discriminating, logical and consistent than are our feelings."

- Carl Jung 

Trusting Experience

THE CRITICAL QUESTION: If the most intelligent person in the Industrial World proved mathematically that you are not reading these words right now, would you believe that expert and his or her proof, or would you believe your sensory reading experience, here, in this moment?  

Be alarmed. With respect to nature, most of us in Industrial Society are socialized to believe and trust the "expertise" of Industrial Society and its nature-disconnected leaders rather that truths we personally sense and experience in nature and in our relationships with the natural in each other and ourselves.


As part of society's excessive conquest of nature, our leaders, including scientists, teach us to demean and mistrust the fulfilling natural attraction senses and sensations of our sensory contacts with nature's flow, in and around us.

The world and we are in trouble because most of us are trained to think or feel that expertly knowing "2 + 2 = 4" is more valuable and rewarding than respecting the integrity of a sunset, celebrating a forest or treasuring the validity of our natural senses.

The socializing bias of Industrial Society is so powerful that it misguides our reasoning to trust information that is based on a falsehood such as "A dog's tail is one of its legs."

Misguided Socialization
We and Earth endure many disorders because, from early on, our prejudiced against nature society socializes us to applaud the "advanced intelligence" of industrialization and to deny the value of, and our satisfactions from, our natural attraction experiences. This loss of the natural unbalances us. We become sliced from "the ball" and we endure the injurious effects of the loss of attractions to it and ourselves. 
When a vast majority of us temporarily "vacate" our industrial lives and our habitual thinking, we go on vacation. For re-creation, (sic) we often fulfill our natural attractions to nature and visit a natural area. For example, annually, over nine million of us, alone, visit Smoky Mountain National Park. 
Most of us have had at least one attractive experience in nature that was organic and spontaneous, a memorable and valuable happening that was not prescribed, taught or structured.  This has occurred because natural attraction is neither foreign nor abnormal. Rather it is a fundamental part of being human, alive and an element in the whole of the global ecosystem.    

Half-Truth Stories

NAE recognizes that many of Industrial Society's stories about life are detrimental and inaccurate simply because nature and life are not a story. Rather, they are a phenomenon, an immediate-experience attraction dance that our natural senses register and bring into our consciousness.  The dance consists of ever changing, mutually supportive, self-balancing and correcting attraction relationships between all parts of the web of life, including us. 
We inherit the attraction and the ability to consciously register and enjoy what our natural senses experience in natural areas. This free gift from nature enables us to reasonably think in conjunction with nature's balanced ways in order to make sense of life and our lives. 
NAE and some of its major axioms are offered, below, to encourage us to make scientific sensory contact with nature, backyard or backcountry. Our troubles arise when we don't make this contact with nature in and around us. It is as if our leaders say:
"Let me drive you across this dangerous road to where it is best for you to be."
"Are you an expert? Do you even know how to drive or what is best?"
"No, but I read a book about it."

As shown by some of the quotations on this page, ancient and modern people who have had good natural attraction experiences in natural areas have recognized that neither a book, teacher nor parent made the experiences happen. Sensitively being in a natural area made them happen. 
NAE activities help you make their experiential education benefits happen for yourself.
"I do not wish to hear about the moon from someone who has not been there"

- Mark Twain
Ancients and moderns have used the first-hand information, thoughts and feelings from their empirical, natural sensory attraction contacts in natural areas to construct undeniable axioms about how nature works:

Axioms



NAE Axiom 1
 
Nature is a non-literate dance.

No sane human being has ever reported hearing or seeing real plants, animal or minerals speak or write or read to each other with words. It is reasonable to conclude that Nature, across the eons and excluding humanity, has known and organized itself through a non-literate, non-verbalized, unwritten attraction message and communication process.

"There is a constant and intimate contact among the things that coexist and co-evolve in the universe - a sharing of bonds and messages that makes reality into a stupendous network of interaction and communication.  It is this 'sharing of messages' in Nature that keeps it in balance."

- Ervin Laslo

 

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NAE Axiom 2
 
To be part of a system anything, or anyone, must somehow be in communication with that system, so that the system and the individual, or thing, can supportively relate to the other.

Since humanity is part of the global ecosystem and the ecosystem is non-literate, we must somehow be in non-literate contact with the system, and vice versa.

"Wind over the lake: the image of inner truth."
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- I Ching circa 1200 B.C.

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NAE Axiom 3A

We know, learn and relate to nature, in and around us, through 53 natural attraction senses that we inherit and that, when fulfilled, produce good feelings.

We only fully know facts and truths when they register and make sense through our 53 or more inherent natural attraction senses.

These senses include our unique literacy, consisting of our combined senses of consciousness, reason and language.

We are attracted to make sense because this gratifies our sense of reason and because our natural senses are attractive. Their fulfillment releases Endorphins, Dopamine and other neurotransmitters that produce good feelings as natural rewards for making good connections.

"I feel so much better since I have been freed of the guilt, shame and crazyness I've felt about myself since childhood. I discovered that I have simply been experiencing and wisely holding on to the truth of my inherent 53 natural attraction senses that our nature-conquering Society tries to demean and control.  I thought I only had five senses and the rest of what I experienced was something wrong that I must control or hide."

- Anonymous NAE Participant


"From atoms and molecules to human beings with developed consciousness, all entities feel attraction for one another. . . . attraction is the law of nature."

- P.R. Sarkar

 

In Industrial Society we normally learn to believe and act-out imaginary "non-sense" stories and the information that their words convey. However, that is not how nature works its
perfection.


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NAE Axiom 3B

Nature, including our 53 natural senses, only exist in the present, in the "now" of life.  They are not in stories about the past or future for real nature is not a story, it is an ongoing attraction relationship process.


"An actually existing fly is more important than a possibly existing angel."

- Ralph Waldo Emerson



For example, "The sun will rise tomorrow," is not necessarily a true statement in NAE, for although the statement is based on our natural senses of reason, literacy, deduction and past experiences, it does not contain immediate sensible input from most of our other natural senses. Since tomorrow's sun has not yet risen, our other natural senses can't register or relate to the event.

When only our abstract-story type of "sun-absent" knowing occurs, we often learn to think and believe non-sense. We and Earth suffer accordingly.

This is a key axiom for change can only occur in the immediate moment
. What we sense in the "now" is also the greatest trustable truth that we can experience. Only in the now is nature available and are our natural senses active, including our senses of reason and consciousness.

*see ECHN page 33
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NAE Axiom 4

Natural senses are nameless, intelligent attractions that we experience in the moment as forms of love or spirit.

Even if it had no given name, our natural sense/sensation of thirst, in the "now," intelligently "turns on" to attract us to drink water. This attracts the global water cycle and its ways to flow through us and sustain us. In addition, when we have had enough water, thirst reasonably and intelligently "turns-off" and, in balanced natural ways, attracts us to stop drinking.

In conjunction with each other, each of our additional 52 natural senses is a similar, naturally nameless, life-guiding, natural attraction intelligence that we feel. In congress, they support us as well as the global ecosystem. For example, our sense of thirst brings us to water for our health. And, for our health, our sense of excretion has us remove water in us that "miraculously" contains appropriate edible waste, and feeds that "waste" to the ecosystem's plant, animal and mineral community.  

Besides our sense of thirst, our love for water, our other natural senses include our love of, or for, community, reason and trust; aroma, place and consciousness; color, taste and motion; language, belonging, beauty, music and gravity along with 39 additional natural sensory attractions and their spirit.

Many of our dysfunctions are simply symptoms of our sensory separation and deprivation from nature.


"I believe in God, only I spell it Nature."

- Frank Lloyd Wright

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*see ECHN Page 101

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NAE Axiom 5

Nature's web-of-life, including all materials and humanity,  consists of natural attractions.

What are we and the world made of?  Factually, we consist of atoms and they are 99.999999999 percent "space." However, neither we nor atoms are empty space.  All that "space" consists of, or contains, attraction, the energies and forces that draw, tug and hold the atom's electrons to its nucleus. These and other attractions also attract and attach one atom to another as well as hold all materials, the Earth and the solar system together.  

We
can empirically observe, experience and sense that things are attracted to stay together by sensitively trying to move or part them. Their attraction to be in relationship and belong in the moment, offers resistance.

Even an atom's nucleus and electrons are subatomic packets of attraction energy, as demonstrated by the explosive power of a nuclear bomb when that energy is released.


That all things are connected through attraction is also recognized by Newton's Laws of Dynamics and by the Buddhist Law of Karma that indicates all acts have consequences.  


When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the universe.

-John Muir

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NAE Axiom 6
  
Planet Earth acts like, or is, a living organism.

Our sensing and feeling about various attraction connections between ourselves and our planet can make us aware that there is nothing that we do with respect to being alive, that Earth does not also do. 

Our natural senses help us discover that we and our planet survive identically, that we are a seamless continuum of each other. This gives our senses of reason and deduction the opportunity to conclude that since people are living organisms and, with respect to life processes, we and Earth are identical, Earth is also a living organism (Gaia), or at least it acts like one.

"The Earth is a functionally integrated system -as much an organic being as you and I- that exists not simply for man's benefit but for it's own.

- David Laing, The Earth System


Life has not adapted to an inert world determined by the dead hand of chemistry and physics. We live in a world that has been built by our biological ancestors, ancient and modern, and which is continuously maintained by all things alive today.

- James Lovelock, The Ages of Gaia

*see ECHN Page 135
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NAE Axiom 7

Humanity lives in the Earth, not on the Earth.

In a natural area, our multitude of natural senses register clouds, birds, weather conditions and the air many miles above our head. This helps our sense of reason recognize and validate that we live in, not on, Planet Earth. We live deep within its atmosphere and  biosphere. They flow through and around us.

The truth, above, often feels uncomfortable because our story-world depicts us as living on the surface of the Earth. This distortion conflicts us. It separates our psyche from the truth conveyed by our "touchy-feely" relationship with the web of life and each other.  The conflict stresses and weakens our senses of self, trust, place, belonging, peace and community. We don't feel comfortable stating the truth, "I live in the Earth."

It is irrational and stressful to think, feel and know the world in this inaccurate and separative way.  The direct sensory experiences we enjoy when vist to a natural area often help us feel better, for they help us register the truth of our relationship with Earth and reduce our stress.

"One touch of Nature makes the whole world kin."

- William Shakespeare

*see ECHN Page 14
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NAE Axiom 8
 

Together, nature and humanity are natural attraction growing more attractive and mutually supportive.

It is reasonable to respect that we and nature consist of, and cooperatively share, natural attractions. For example, 

We are attracted to breathe in oxygen for our life and attracted to exhale carbon dioxide as food for plant life. 

We are attracted to eat food to support our life and attracted to excrete our waste, and it is food that supports the web-of-life. 

We are attracted to be more attractive and to seek and enjoy more attractions, as does the natural environment.

Scientists find, by using radioactive tagged atoms, that atoms from the environment are attracted to replace 98 percent of the atoms of our body and mind every year. Every seven years or so, every atom in our body returns to the environment and is replaced by a new atom from the environment. We continually become the environment and it becomes us.

Our body and mind consist of ten times more "foreign" cells than human cells.

Some of our human DNA is the DNA of plants and animals. DNA consists of mineral molecules and elements.

The words "humus" and "human" and "humility" have the same origin.

Biologically we and nature are one, a flowing, pristine river of life that consists of ceasless dancing and resonating attraction relationships within and between all of its currents, including us as one of these currents.

"There is one common flow, one common breathing, all things are in sympathy."

- Hippocrates, circa 450 B.C.

*see ECHN Page 12

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NAE Axiom 9
 
Nature has a perfection of its own.

It makes sense to recognize that nature's perfection consists of the ability of its natural attractions to: correct, organize, renew, regenerate, recycle, transform, compost, perpetuate, purify and preserve nature. 

Natural attractions achieve the above in balanced ways that produce nature's optimums of grace, life, diversity, cooperation and beauty.  

Nature achieves its valuable optimums without producing garbage, pollution or our excessive abusiveness, disorders, stress, isolation and insanity. 

Our natural senses of reason, consciousness, community, emotional place, trust, companionship, appreciation, survival and sublime love, along with other natural senses, help us recognize that it is sensible to acknowledge that the above-mentioned qualities of the natural world make nature perfect in its own way.  

Our natural sense of deduction informs us that since we are biologically, psychologically and spiritually a seamless continuum of nature, our natural self is as perfect as is nature. 

We don't need to learn how to be perfect.  Education means "To bring out from within."  What we need to do is apply NAE because it enables us, through hands-on, sensory education, to respectfully bring out, as well as support, celebrate, love and relate to the unifying perfection of our natural self in ourselves, in others and in the web-of-life.

"I go to nature to be soothed and healed, and to have my senses put in order."

- John Burroughs



"What we are looking for is what is doing the looking"


-St. Francis of Assisi

*see ECHN Page 26

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NAE Axiom 10

NAE attracts us to unify with, rather than conquer and exploit, human life and the web-of-life.

As a natural area brings our psyche into contact with nature's wholeness, our natural reasoning, senses and sensitivities convey that the fittest survive in nature, but not because they are the best competitors. Rather, it is because they are the best builders of cooperative natural attraction relationships with their environment.  

The fittest are those "things" that are the best in attracting support from their surroundings.  The fittest accomplish this by attractively supporting their surroundings locally and globally. The "fittest" are fit because they are the most cooperatively attractive.


"This world - the shadow of the soul, or 'other' me - lies wide around. Its attractions are the keys which unlock my thought and make me acquainted with myself."

- R. W. Emerson, circa 1860


*see ECHN Page 12

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NAE Axiom 11

The purpose of life is to support life;  life consists of nature's attraction to support it.  

Humanity consciously experiences the natural attraction of life to support life.  We call that attraction our felt sense love of life, our instinct for survival, or our desire to be, that our senses feel, that we experience and enjoy. 

"The purpose of life is to live in agreement with nature."

- Zeno, circa 520 BC

* see ECHN Page 27

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NAE Axiom 12
  
An NAE Vehicle: The Webstring Natural Attraction Model.

Our experiences with NAE show us that when the web-of-life is represented by an accurate web of life model of how nature's perfection works, we can choose to use the model and have the model's activities help us balance our thinking and increase our well being.

The activities accomplish this by enabling us to interlace our intelligence and senses with the flow of web-of-life attraction connections (webstrings) in a natural area, backyard or backcountry.

"We cannot live for ourselves alone. Our lives are connected by a thousand invisible threads, and along these sympathetic fibers our actions run as causes and return to us as results."

- Herman Melville


The webstring model helps us update our scientific reasoning and technology since they are often excessively disconnected from how nature works.

Because nature consists of ever-changing dancing and resonating natural attraction relationships within and between all of its elements, including us, our scientific facts are warped.

Scientific facts are usually based on standard conditions of light, motion, temperature, sound and pressure while in nature there are few, if any, standard conditions of anything. 

In the natural world, the major standard condition is constant change and flow. For this reason, the webstring model's 53 sense activities help us connect with authentic nature as it is happening, flowing and changing in and for all things.



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NAE Axiom 13

Our basic relationship with nature and each other is cooperative, not competitive

We have the felt-sense ability to know that our attractions to things and relationships in a genuine natural area are not learned. Rather, they are our psyche inherently and cooperatively connecting to its nurturing source in nature. There is no story present in nature that tells our psyche to refrain from connecting. To the contrary, nature attracts us to connect.

Our unadulterated attractions to natural areas enable us to
become aware of nature's perfection.  This cooperation helps us think like nature works; it benefits us and the environment.

When we respectfully visit a natural area, our 53 natural senses safely make contact with the self-correcting balance and purifying power of their origins in nature.  Because this energizes and restores them, our natural senses help us think more sensibly.
 

"Nothing is more indisputable than our senses."

- Jean Le Rond d'Alembert




*see
ECHN Page 13

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NAE Axiom 14

Members of Industrial Society suffer because it is unduly prejudiced against nature.

NAE identifies prejudice as
 
"An unreasonable pre-judging attitude that is, due to bonding, unusually resistant to rational influence."
 
Industrial Society is prejudiced against nature due to our unfounded "tropicmaker" belief that nature is hostile to us and that nature is not intelligent.

NAE recognizes that most nature-centered societies neither cause or display our excessive and detrimental ways.

Our Ego's misguided prejudice against nature has us habitually learn to believe that it is superior to nature, that, for our survival and profit, we must take dominion over, exploit and improve nature, in and around us.

We are
not born to be excessively separated from, suspicious and fearful of nature. Rather, Industrial Society educates us to this condition.  

We seldom change the way we think because we are bonded to it by the age of seven. Society pays us, and in other ways rewards us, to not understand things that we need to know
in order to live in balance.

"We have these prejudices and as long as we think that these prejudices are valid we exclude huge subjects of thinking. And that exclusion is what is really blinding."

- Dr. Amit Goswami

*see ECHN Page 24

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NAE Axiom 15

How we think and feel shapes our destiny.

NAE helps us register natural attraction callings so we may think and feel think like nature's perfection works.  The enjoyment and benefits that result from these connections help us unleash our unreasonable bonds, re-connect to the whole of Earth and reverse our prejudice against nature.

"A thing is right when it tends to preserve the integrity, stability and beauty of the biotic community. It is wrong when it tends to do otherwise."

- Aldo Leopold, 1948


"This is how a human being can change: there's a worm addicted to eating grape leaves. Suddenly, he wakes up, call it grace, whatever, something wakes him, and he's no longer a worm. He's the entire vineyard, and the orchard too, the fruit, the trunks, a growing wisdom and joy that doesn't need to devour."

- Jedaluddin Rumi, 1207-1273


The thousands of favorable results from engaging in NAE courses and activities demonstrate that the wisdom and joy of genuinely connecting ourselves with nature helps us increase personal, social and environmental well-being.

As the quotes on this page disclose, the observations of many individuals over past millenna show that we have long been aware of our attractive attachments to nature. It is Industrial Society's prejudice against nature that causes us to ignore these observations and suffer accordingly.

Again, nature-connected people(s) seldom cause or display our problems and madness.   

*see ECHN Page 108, 115, 132, 141

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Summary

A Lilac can appear to be blue against a red background, and appear to be red against a blue one.  However, the color of a Lilac also has its own integrity.

Similarly, with the conquer-nature bias of Industrial Society as our "background," our thinking sees nature as a resource that we must increasingly exploit/consume" for profit if we are to survive.

NAE helps us sense and reason based on a different background.  That background demonstrates and certifies that for our survival and balance, the integrity of nature is a powerful and supportive friend. Our survival benefits from it's nurturing of natural attraction relationships as they create their own self-correcting perfection around and within us.

To survive in a balanced and ethical way with the whole of life, it is rational for us to learn how to let NAE activities help us think and feel while in conscious sensory contact with the integrity of our natural attractions in natural areas.


"Oh, what a catastrophe, what a maiming of love when it was made personal, merely personal feeling.


This is what is the matter with us: we are bleeding at the roots because we are cut off from the Earth and sun and stars.

Love has become a grinning mockery because, poor blossom, we plucked it from its stem on the Tree of Life and expected it to keep on blooming in our civilized vase on the table."

- D. H. Lawrence



"We cannot win the battle to increase the well-being of the web of life, that includes our life, without strengthening our natural senses, our emotional bonds with nature  - for we will not fight to save what we do not love."

- Michael J. Cohen's blend of statements by Stephen Jay Gould and Jalaluddin Rumi
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Conclusion

We, along with all other people, places and things, are equally born as an expression and manifestation of natural attraction. We are it, it is us. However, the unwarranted prejudice against nature in 
tropicmaker thinking socializes us to conquer that expression.

We are normally born with naturally-satisfied minds and hearts.  Industrial Society educates/socializes us through desensitizing processes that irritate our psyche. Our dissatisfaction motivates us to excessively purchase artificial products to meet our discontents. Desensitized, we often ignore the detrimental effects of the artificial on nature's renewing flow in and around us.

Most therapies help us deal with the stress and disorders that result from our destructive socialization. However, they are usually unaware of its prejudiced against nature origins or how to remedy them.

We can no longer afford to endure the consequences of being habitually bonded and shaped into consumers who are
excessively sliced away from the balanced-life authenticity of our planetary home.

To counteract the prejudice of our unbalanced bonding, each of us needs, or may learn, to shamelessly feel and declare anywhere,
"I love nature," or "I love Earth," and, in this glow, design and build naturally attractive and sustainable relationships with humanity, the environment and creation. NAE courses, books and degrees are offered that help any individual or institution achieve this goal.

Project NatureConnect supports individuals whose consciousness appreciates the contribution of NAE. Any interested person can be funded to help increase well-being by using NAE to beneficially green their psyche, life and profession while helping others do the same.

There is a heartfelt essence that helps us achieve peaceful balance with Earth and each other.  It is to use NAE to register, trust and consciously think with our natural senses and the wisdom they, in congress, convey to us while we are in contact with nature, in and around us.  

NAE helps us gain a recuperative, stress releasing fulfillment of our 53 senses by enabling us to freely interlace our psyche with nature instead of purchasing excessive and often destructive technologies.

"The Smokies always reminds me of coming home.  From the top of the hills you look down into a slow meandering stream that loops all through the mountains.  I was attracted to become the interconnecting flow of this stream, thinking how strange and wonderful is our home and Mother Earth's natural attraction to produce its swirling vaporous atmosphere, its flowing frozen liquids, its plants, its creeping, crawling, climbing creatures, the croaking things with wings, the rocks, the grasses. As I sensed an attractive connection to these things I became one of the grains of sand that helped form these mountains.  This strengthened my senses and I enjoyed an intense, fulfilling awareness of the rocks and all things around me. I thought, 'This must be the high that people get from drugs' "

- Anonymous NAE Participant


As these words attract you, you are engaged in part of the NAE process. The goal is to engage yourself and your community in all of it, in the joy of supporting authentic nature in a natural area, as it is attracted to supporting you.



"Nature is the unseen intelligence that loved us into being."
 
- Elbert Hubbard



"Our troubles begin when we bond to sensory fulfillments obtained from flawed substitutes for nature. Our remedy is to reason in ways that include the "now" and the intelligence of our natural attractions while they are genuinely connected to their source in the web of life, backyard or backcountry."

- Michael J. Cohen

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The Source of the NAE Axioms 

Below are field reports taken from the journals of anonymous Project NatureConnect participants who used Natural Attraction Ecology activities to respectfully make 53-sense contact with nature in themselves, others and the environment.

Additional reports are available via the survey of participants and its links
 

My Authentic Voice

Slatic’s Lake is a very special place to me. When I got there I was already on a high from life.  I have had a good last couple days and am just feeling healthy and alive.  While asking permission to be at this place, the seagull flying above seemed to say to me, “Yes, you are one of us.”  Almost as if I was supposed to know that already.  
 
Immediately some geese soared by and I rejoiced in the sound they made.  I wanted to skip or do a dance because I was feeling so alive!  Things just seem to be coming together in my life, I am feeling the flow of life, not even so much feeling as I AM the flow of life.  I’m flowin’……. 

“I am attracted to this flock of geese because they make a beautiful sound as they whoosh by in flight and show me life.  I like this sound because it fills me with happiness.  I feel alive!  I feel vibrant life!”  

The NAE course helps me recognize that, like the geese, I am part of nature and that I can honestly say I am naturally attracted to myself in exactly the same way that I am naturally attracted to the wild geese.
 
Things that don’t feel right, relationships that don’t feel right, I am moving away from.  I feel now as if I am attracting the stuff in my life that is supposed to be there because I am open and trusting, because I am being authentic, because I am being true to myself, because I LOVE myself.  Yay!  I dance and giggle at that!

The geese have taught me that I love myself because I have a vibrant, happy life that flows and that I make a beautiful sound!

On my walk around the lake I watched the community of birds around the lone open spot of water…ravens, mallards, geese, seagulls….living in harmony.  Absolutely gorgeous…why are we humans not living like that??????? 

I learned that I am a vibrant, flowing, life-being and I am welcome and loved in nature

I choose to keep trusting and believing in NAE nature connections because things are a coming together…there is balance on the horizon. I would be sad to have the web-of-life attraction strands taken away from me that I am experiencing every day of my life.  Definitely this activity enhanced my sense of self-worth and my trustfulness of nature.  It help me identify that it's OK to be happy, to trust in each moment, in what is happening in your life, and to listen to your authentic voice.




Reducing inaccuracy:


"Although the air was cool, the sun was shining so I experienced the chill of air passing into my nose while feeling the warmth of the sun on my cheeks. I sensed the damp earth soft for sitting, the earthy, pleasing, surprisingly aromatic and green smells of the abundant surrounding plants, the warmth of the sun, the grounding energy of the oaks and madrones and the view to the hills across a narrow valley. I felt welcome, nurtured, at peace and one with my surroundings. I also felt grateful, a wonderful, too often absent, way to feel.  This was such a welcome experience.


It was extremely enjoyable and even instructive to pay attention to everything I was experiencing. Paying more attention increased the enjoyment, increased my appreciation and happiness, partly by moving into the background the thoughts and concerns that occupied my day before I got there but mostly from connecting to the softness and widespread beauty.  It was a warm experience, perfectly balanced.  It was also extremely enjoyable to replace the bird in the drawing with different elements of my environment and this felt very true and beautiful as I sensed into each one: large oak, soft green plants, blue sky, sun, gentle breeze, damp earth. 

It was very grounding and affirming to do this exercise...I felt so happy to bring the awareness of all these things into my sensory fields. It was like an exchange of love and I felt completely transformed compared to my state of mind and being before I started it.

Spending enough time in nature so that significant impressions, insights, comforts, peace, etc. can occur is extremely important, otherwise those things and their connection will barely register, if at all. And the more time that is spent in nature, the less likely an inaccurate or superficial story about it will be formed."


The love of trees

It is raining and windy, which made me want to stay indoors where it was snug and cozy rather than brave the elements. However, when I bundled up and went outside I was reminded once again about how invigorating and uplifting it is to go outdoors even when (and perhaps especially when) the elements are heightened. My nose was cold and my cheeks stung with the chill of the rain and the wind blew against me. I leaned against the tree and was filled with gratitude over its shelter and protection. I imagined its strength being draw from its roots in the earth surging upward and was also strengthened.  

I love the trees because they are deeply rooted and filled with strength.

I love myself because I am deeply rooted and filled with strength. 

Classmate: This is a really great sensory image and easy for me to accept from what you have shared about yourself in this class.  

Writer: It does describe me: I draw my strength from my natural attractions of my family, my dear friends and my connections to the earth, all of which sustain me.  Like the trees who sheltered me from the elements, I also shelter and protect my family, my friends, my community and give them my strength in return. 

Classmate: No wonder you love trees! I did the activity and was attracted to a little flower growing under a bush. I discovered "I like this small flowering plant because it is in constant upward motion and means no harm. This translated into: "I like myself because i am in constant upward motion, and mean no harm," and that felt right to me. I recognized that I have more in common with nature than I previously noticed and that ways of life that are not in accordance with nature have desensitizing effects.



Unification

I walked out with permission into the nature of a cloudy day. The feeling was damp and cold feeling more like a New England morning than Arizona. The feeling of moisture driving the cold deep into my being felt different than the crisp dry Arizona cold of most days here. As I walked along, I began to say unity --unity-- I noticed the extreme peaceful feeling of no movement, no wind, the feeling as if time itself stood still. 

The human community, not yet awakened, usually consists of the bustle and movement of vehicles and sounds of a town waking. Instead a feeling of peace, absence of noise and wind presides. 

The ravens with their winter calls then started up-I was just thinking the day prior that I had not heard them this year. Perhaps it was due to my business responsibilities and the disconnect they bring about.

I sensed total peace as I walked along- with the awareness of unity and support. It was as if the ravens were ushering me to work. As I approached a large tree there were a flock of birds roosting at the top of its twisted, mature branches. I felt a oneness as the solstice light began warming the day. I entered the building and as I sat at my desk I saw that the flock of birds, now visible, were taking off from the tree top, also starting their day. What a profound sense of belonging  I was at in that moment in time.

Addendum: At the end of the day as the nurse and I sit by my desk recounting the day and sharing support and healing for ourselves, the birds returned to the tree top. What a sense of unity this day.



Belonging in Christmas

I did not grow up in a family that celebrated Christmas or Hanukah (by birth I am Jewish, and was raised Christian) and the holidays are painful for me. Although I’m not consciously reflecting on negative memories, the past insidiously creeps in and puts a pall on what should be a joy-filled time for me and my family. I formally coped with this by feverishly throwing myself holiday preparations and rituals to the extreme. The house was bursting with homemade gifts, we participated in every holiday activity imaginable and there wasn’t a spare moment to even sit down. People would delight in my gifts, charmed by my professional looking holiday newsletter of our family complete with humorous and touching stories and photos and make references to Martha Stewart. But year after year, after our children would unwrap their gifts from under our perfectly decorated tree I would crash in absolute exhaustion and/or would be physically ill. The last couple of years have increasingly been more challenging due to life circumstances added with a string of devastating events.  I’ve barely been able to muster the energy to even acknowledge the holidays, much less truly celebrate them. I’ve felt guilty and conflicted about this, unable to overcome my inner turmoil to try to find a middle ground.

Early Christmas Eve I chose to do my assignment and seek Nature’s wisdom. The weather has been intermittently stormy, snowy, wet, sleeting and so forth, not just on any given day but at any moment it could shift without warning. Around the time I stepped outdoors the sky had cleared. I stopped and simply let myself breathe, in and out, in and out. I let my mind go free and think of anything for awhile. My anxiety rose up and unexpectedly so did my tears. Although I did not cry hard, it seemed to have risen up from a low deep place within me. I felt the air chill my hot tears as they sprang from my eyes. I stayed in that feeling for awhile and then as my heart, mind and emotions quieted down in the calm of nature I began to think of my assignment. I followed my attraction and was drawn by the deep emerald green of the fields that spread out in every direction. I began to free-form hum, then little phrases of music began to creep up and spill from my mouth. The green was like balm to my eyes and the music soothed the jangled cords and began to form into song. Perhaps cliché, I began to sing the Christmas songs my little girl had been singing earlier while playing quietly by herself. I felt a strong sense of harmony with what I saw in nature and what I felt inside, as the two were intertwined. Singing required a different kind of breathing and this action regulated it. I suddenly trailed off no longer feeling like singing. I simply listened to the wind in the tall grasses and blowing the branches, to the creeping crackle of a cat walking across the fallen leaves and to the sound of our two ducks swishing their bills around in the water to drink. It was a perfect disjointed and yet perfectly harmonious symphony of it’s own kind and I felt myself a part of it. I thought about how I was a part of it, it was a part of me, a whole community resonating together consciously and unconsciously. I felt calm, quiet and at peace.

I didn’t want to interrupt this feeling to go through the natural senses in the book, so I tried to simply sort of generalize from memory what they were. I thought of sense of community (all around me), the sense of feel (the air touching my skin), sight/color (the soothing green fields), but what most stuck out to me was that the longer I stood there, the more I felt like I was part of a larger whole—a community. I felt that as nature resonated with me and me with it that there was no “me” or “it”. I felt accepted, as though I belonged.

I carried this feeling of belonging and calm with me into the house as I interacted with my family. I found myself humming and filled with the holiday spirit as I prepared our Christmas meal of fondue. We literally sat and broke bread together, I laughed with them and we enjoyed ourselves.

My husband prefers chilly sleeping so he’s been happily enjoying the solitude of sleeping alone. However, this night, apparently drawn by my quiet contemplative calm spirit, he came out and “spooned” me, sort of cocooning me as I nestled against him. We didn’t speak. We merely lay quietly breathing together, completely filled with peace as we gazed with love at our sleeping little children who appeared to be angelic while they slumbered. I felt nature’s gifts to me, which I carried indoors and into my family. It is the best Christmas present I could receive.



A good place to be

Well, as usual this was a pleasantly surprising activity.  With a perceived lack of time, I was a bit disgruntled about doing it and wondered what I could do quickly and not have to put too much of myself into it.  Funny, huh?  Short story even shorter, I walked into the yard, obtained permission, mustered up some gratitude, scooped up a bit of snow onto my finger and felt it -- deeply.  I felt the sting of cold, the contrast of temperature with other fingers. I observed the response of cold snow on warm finger, the sensation of water dripping down the finger and onto the back of my hand.  I even let out a spontaneous musical sigh as it dripped.  The water all around and inside of me and evaporating off of my index finger and frozen in tiny ice designs and somehow making its way through cold air to make water clouds was all at once very much in my awareness.  The sense of feeling was amplified.  My body heat and the cold snow resonated.

Later, I played a game of scrabble with Marty.  He set me off once or twice by waiting what seemed an inordinate amount of time to take his turn, making high scoring plays, and otherwise being a true opponent.  Each time these feelings arose, I put my hand on him -- touched his arm, rested my hand on his knee.  This immediately settled me and I didn't feel the distance between us any longer.

I was so happy to have done this activity, and learned that the sense of feeling and touch was a way to resonate with and to create a non-language way of feeling within me, not just on my finger!  By connecting with the cold snow through the sense of touch, I got outside of my head which was a good place to be since it hadn't been working too well all day!


Discovering Community

As usual, I went to the two small parks two blocks from where I live. The Stuyvesant Parks have been my "saving grace" in maintaining a sense of balance and getting in touch with my feelings. When I come home after one of my walks I always feel good.  I am filled with a renewed sense of hope and have a deeper connection with myself and with others.

As I began my walk around the park, I noticed the stark bare tree branches of elm and oak, the color of dark gray, of diverse width, shape and length spread sideways and up to the sky, inspiring the image of a Japanese painting.  This image brought up a melancholy feeling so I asked the question, "What webstrings do I most desire to surface from my subconscious to conscious that would make me feel good  Was it validation? Recognition?  I heard a voice say, "dig a little deeper."  Belonging? "Community," that felt right.

As soon as the word community came into my head I saw a flock of pigeons flying overhead, then a gathering of squirrels eating from the same patch of land, then sparrows sharing the same rose bush.  I was witnessing a good feeling of connection from the trees, pigeons, squirrels and sparrows.

Then I saw 2 squirrels playing together, chasing each other up and down trees and on the benches -- they made me laugh out loud.

Several park employees were cleaning up the leaves and I had a deep desire to tell them how grateful I was.    So I went over to one of the men and one of the women, and I thanked them for keeping the parks so clean.  I let them know how much they are appreciated and how good it feels to come here.  One man said he doesn't hear that very often and it felt good to see his smile of pride.

A few minutes later I felt something hit my shoulder and at first I thought, "Oh no, it's pigeon s--t." No, it was a snowflake.  The most extraordinary thing happened, millions of snowflakes as big as cotton balls fell from the sky.  The color of the sky was an off white and it made the park translucent.  A few people walked along with their tongues out trying to catch a snowflake, so I started to do this too and we all laughed.

Suddenly adults were transformed into children.  People began to smile at each other and laugh at the magic that was happening.  A man stopped, put his briefcase on the ground and started doing tai chi.  For the next 10 minutes I happily stood smiling as I watched him and the snow falling in the park.  We were by then the only 2 left in the park, except for 2 park employees who kept looking up at the sky in disbelief.

There is something about snow in the city that brings everyone together --for me  it brings out the natural attractions of community.   The snow that fell from the sky today wasn't your typical snow, it was a phenomenon in its size, shape, the way it fell from the sky and it lasted a good half-hour. I thanked the snow for being there.

The whole experience was breathtaking.  Good feelings of being childlike, playful, connected, and loved filled my heart. It felt so good to be there. There are no words to express the joy I felt.

My experience in nature shows me that I am a person who gets good feelings when I am in the moment, being still and silent, outside connecting to natural attractions of life, for being grateful and giving heartfelt thanks to the trees, wildlife and the people who take care of the park -- for creating the opportunity of making possible a connection to the natural attractions that bind community.

I discovered that connecting with strangers through laughter caused by the unexpected phenomena of millions of snowflakes, the size of large cotton balls, rapidly falling from the sky--transformed adults into playful children sticking their tongues out trying to catch a snowflake.


Awakening Love

Oh beautiful sentient being Mother Nature, I have just begun to appreciate your presence, beauty and love…  How did I live all these years without this connection is beyond my comprehension.  I am so glad I have arrived!

The Self, Meet Yourself activity was so beautiful and eye opening that I had to re-do it and be in it till each aspect of my being felt like a part of Mother Earth and her atmosphere…  I must say it was an awakening experience… Such profound love which I always thought is rare and felt occasionally when meditating, is actually present in every ounce of Nature and can be accessed by simply allowing and following Nature’s attractions…

As I walked in Nature away from my backyard to an open space…  allowing spontaneous attractions to call me… I was mesmerized by a loving embrace of two trees with branches running through the other tree…  Love is not just between two people it is present in Nature everywhere.

What I learned from this activity is the abundance of love and that Nature nurtures through natural Love ever present supporting all of existence.  
LOVE is natural attraction, it cannot be taken away as that is our true Nature…  We sustain and create through LOVE… we even die through love merging back into what we were born from…

 
Interacting Responsibly

The seed of my interest in Natural Attraction Ecology and Ecopsychology based on it, was sown with my gradual awareness of the unsustainability, destructiveness, and unhealthiness of our way of life. By "our," I mean several institutions whose shared values have changed this planet in unprecedented ways: Western civilization, America's (and many other like-minded countries) death-culture, the objectification of nature as "resources" to be exploited, cheap oil, etc. Through this series of realizations, I decided that I wanted to find a way to become a more responsible being on this planet -- more profoundly than buying organic/free trade food. By "responsible being," I mean I want to find my place in the Natural World and help others do the same. With my educational background and interests, ecopsychology made the most sense. What I like about this program in particular is that it's got a grass-roots (organic!) drive behind it. Even though it's Internet- and email-based, students get an experiential education. The activities I've done so far -- and their lasting effects -- have confirmed for me that this program resonates with ideas I hold dear and sacred, and simply just makes sense for me.

     My background is in psychology, child development, and family support. My realizations about the direction that civilization is headed have also influenced the way I look at my "career field." So many of the systems I've worked in and with, while they are counter-cultural in some ways, are still grounded in and dependent upon the injustices and destruction and separation-from-nature that inform so much of our existence. Put bluntly, I began to get the feeling that I was empowering and supporting these people only to feed them back into the Machine Culture. Through this course/program and the supportive nature-connected relationships it reinforces, I intend to forge a more sustainable and proactive career in light of the current state of our society and environment.

     Professionally, I want to find a way to do good, sustainable, productive work that truly empowers and supports people by connecting them with their real Natural Selves. Personally, I anticipate going through deep realizations about some of the nature-disconnected stories that are still operating in my life, and opening up to all the other ways I have available of interacting responsibly with myself, this world, and its inhabitants.


Waking up

It is a blustery day. The wind and snow are swirling around outside my window. And the temperatures are cold. Feels like a day to enjoy the day- but from inside looking out.

I went to my family room window where Don recently hung a bird feeder. And, there they were out in the storm a several junkos and a finch. How do they do it? I found myself asking.

And, so I asked them. First for permission to ask them and then by expressing my gratitude for whatever they were about to teach me.

I called to mind some of my stressed thoughts and feeling. "I don't know how to do the financial world. There is too much to learn, that I can't understand. I won't have the opportunity to retire if I don't make the right decisions, now. I may not survive today, if I don't do it right. But, I don't know how to make the right decisions!" Stress-out! Life feels like one  big never ending anxiety trip- when I approach it with these thoughts.

So, I matched my body with the bird's movements as the activity suggests. The finch sat munching the seeds from the bird feeder. I chomped and moved my neck in swallowing motions. He seemed unfazed by thoughts of the future. He just seemed grateful and content to be eating now. I noticed as I matched his movements that I somehow began to feel more grateful and content. Wow!

I began to sense a message."Opportunities have been and always will be available. No need to stress. There is no such thing as a missed opportunity. When one disappears another arises." There was no bird feeder there last week- but this week there is.

Don came in the room singing a happy holiday song. The finch sensed that it was time to move on. He simply flew off the bird feeder and away. Non-attachment was his message as it was attracted to a safer setting. Be grateful for what you are receiving now and trust that what you need will be provided. The next opportunity awaits. And, the next.

Feels like a much lovelier way to live.

I would  be so devastated if the finch and my experience with him were taken away from me.

I wrote: "I like the finch because it weathers the storms of life with its contentment and gratitude. It trusts this moment and gives its focus and love to it. Its life matters to it. It gives itself to what it senses that it needs. It is willing to look for opportunities and trust that when that opportunity has passed that another one will present itself in perfect time. He knows and trusts his place in the moment and in all of nature."

Then I wrote the same thing about nature in me:

"I like myself because, I weather the storms of life with my contentment and gratitude. I trust this moment and give my focus and love to it. My life matters to me. I give myself to what I sense that my spirit needs. I am willing to look for opportunities and trust that when that opportunity has passed that another one will present itself in perfect time. I know and trust my place in this moment and in all of nature."

My self esteem and trustfulness of nature were very much enhanced through doing this activity. Thank you little finch.

I did  this same activity with a person to note the effects.
When I asked Don for permission to match his movements. He said, "Sure! Match this!" and gave me a big smooch!

I did this, this morning, so I haven't slept on it, yet. But, I do notice I am facing the day with a sense of calm- as if I had just woken up from a good nights sleep.


A tree-dance response

I ran in from the cold approaching storm with groceries in hand, shook off the chill and moved the mouse around to see if I had any new mail.  There you were, reminding me that Friday did come.  And so after reading your wonderful post -- so full of life and connection and essential learning from Finch the Teacher -- I sat at the front window and asked the pine if we could play.  Bobbing and reaching in the cold wind, I reached my limbs outward and did the dance of the tree.  Energy coursed through me and the connecting  tingle was thick and pure. 

A cloud bank in the west moved like a wall, unflinching in it's form except for the steady movement north and east.  So I moved, solid, slow, with  snow filled density.  A darker cloud moved in the opposite direction and so did I.  I loved it!  In my wildest dream of what today would hold, I didn't imagine I would take the time to dance with a tree!  No one was home to match movements with, but Maggie is always willing to wag when I talk to her, so I matched her, I wagged my tail and twitched my eyes without moving my head, lifted my ears in anticipation and giggled at the sight of me! 

What I learned is that a mere waltz with a tree or cloud can push aside the clutter of a to do list, the worries of the day, the undone housework, the anticipation of any event --and bring me powerfully to the NOW of what is beautiful, what is deeply and profoundly HERE as teacher, as dance partner.  I like myself because I bend with the wind and move solidly through the atmosphere of life.  Both of these are qualities are powerful ways to manage the unpredictable weather I encounter.

Thanks to all of you who support me on this shared email list.  Thanks to Dr. Cohen for bringing this work to us.  Thanks to the wind and the trees and the clouds and the birds who hang in the wind until it shifts.


Making the connection

I find hope in people like my sister who went on a walk with me one day and I asked her to tell me what she was attracted to.  At first she told me that she wasn’t finding herself attracted to anything….that really she is just attracted to people.  I asked her to think of something in nature that she was attracted to, even if she was not seeing it on our walk.  She told me she loves a beautiful sunset.  I asked her what she would feel like if that sunset was taken away from her.  She told me that it would not affect her life, she would still be able to survive.  I asked her if her life would be as fulfilling without the sunset, would she enjoy her life as much?  The wheels began turning….she was able to tell me some things she was attracted to on the second half of the walk.  

About a week later I asked my sister to read my posting from Chapter 6.  After reading it she asked me if this course was supposed to help strengthen our relationships with people.  It was like a light bulb went on in her head when I answered yes, and she responded, "Well, I can see us working together someday."  My sister is in school to be a counselor and she loves helping people with their problems.  She made the connection!

 

No prescription needed

I am enjoying everyone's introduction and their feelings and thoughts about this course.  I already "feel" different since I started.  I feel so lucky to be taking this online class.  I have been a nurse for many years and get to see on a daily basis what being disconnected from nature can do to a person.  I have taken many classes on holistic nursing and studied vibrational medicine, healing touch, for many years. It seems more and more of society is numbed, overwhelmed, helpless, desensitized, and in pain.  I feel this is the class for everyone.  I have always been attracted to nature, rivers, rocks, trees, etc.I find myself growing vegetables and making compost and love every minute of it.    

I have a small place on the lake in the woods and it seems when I am there it is the only time I feel truly happy and content.  As I watch my grandchildren  sit in the house and play video games  sun up till sundown I am concerned.  I have seen how this class will help me to help them and others to understand just how disconnected we have become and that we can be healed!! A walk in the wood fights depression and is better than anything that does not require a prescription!!



Enhanced self-worth

For this exercise, I sat outside and watched the snow fall for this first time this year.  While doing so, I came to the awareness that, "I am attracted to this snowfall because it reminds me of how pure, all-knowing, and beautiful nature truly is."

Substituting "myself" in this statement was a little awkward, took some time for me to contemplate, but ultimately agreed with the intentions of nature: "I like myself because I remind me of how pure, all-knowing, and beautiful I truly am."  

I am not going to lie.  When my second statement didn't sound perfectly flowing in grammatical correctness to me, I was tempted to cheat a bit and go back and change my first statement.  Rather, I chose to ponder why I thought of myself so separately from nature, considering that is from where I was biologically created.  I am definitely not "all-knowing," but nature sure is.  It was in its all-knowing ability that nature created me.  I never really thought to think of myself in the sense of purity, but when nature created me, I was as pure as possible. So I modified and improved the statement about myself. This whole process, to me, is beautiful...and amazing.

I learned that: 

It is the parts of ourselves that are most similar, and thus connected, to nature that find different natural elements so attractive.

We are psychological indoor addicts because of our excessive indoor-oriented upbringings.

Though it is often difficult to do so, we must acknowledge that we are creations of nature, and in this creation we inherit nature's great qualities.

Now that I am aware of these natural attraction qualities within myself, I would not want them taken away.  However, I can now acknowledge how many times I allowed societal influences to rob me of my natural attractions.

This activity absolutely enhanced my self-worth. It forced me to recognize that I must question the times when I disrespect nature by not trusting in its "all-knowingness." While participating in this activity, I was able to identify myself as more a part of nature, rather than simply an organism living within nature.


Thought stories

I remembered  the time I spent living in London, England.  I was out one day, and a squirrel that was walking on the ground suddenly ran over, up my leg, further up my torso and arm, and then sat on my shoulder.  It all happened so quickly, and caught me completely by surprise.  I did not respond favorably to the squirrel.  I began to shake myself, trying to get him off of me.  Everybody was looking at me like I was crazy.  Then an old man who worked nearby came over, yelled at me for treating the squirrel poorly, and handed me a peanut.  He actually wanted me to feed the squirrel while it was relaxing on my shoulder!  He put his arm out, and allowed the squirrel to run up it.  Once the initial shock and trauma wore off, I laughed at the societal differences.  I would never think to feed a squirrel.  I thought he, a fraction of my size, was going to eat me!  It shows the way we frequently respond to nature based on our thought-stories, rather than our natural attractions.



 
 
Living with all beings

As I read the questions I started thinking and feeling things that I could not verbalize. This also gave me hope for the future that I did not have before. We are all a part of the earth community, interconnected with trees, rocks, birds, animals and other beings.  Many mystics, world views, and modern forms of science have realized that there are actually no points where one being ends and another begins, but a "flow" of life. PNC strives to help people to feel this connection. 

PNC is a path of healing, one that can bring a great sense of purpose and place in modern day lives.  There are many, many, values to PNC.  Stress release, anxieties, addictions.  It is a personal and professional tool.  Another reason I am taking this advanced class is to help myself and others feel this connection with the rest of life and live with the interconnectedness with all beings and the earth.



Relationships between things

During a beautiful snow, I went out to refill the bird feeder. I was then attracted to stand a few feet away and watch the feeder while reciting the word, "unity." While concentrating on this word, like a koan in a meditation, I became aware of unified themes all around me. It began with the attraction of the chickadees flying back and forth from the feeder. I connected their paths with invisible lines, making a diagram in my imagination of all the strings that the chickadees were tying together. The trees, shrubs, and ground became tied to the feeder.

I then began to think of the chickadees as a whole due to their similarities, then birds as a category adding in the tufted titmouses, mourning doves, and cardinals also visiting the feeder, then animals as a category, now including the squirrels and myself, then biosphere, then planet, cosmos.

I also became attracted to the snow. It indiscriminately covered everything, regardless of category, trees, grass, rocks, me, all were subjected to the same conditions. This brought me to thought of global situations such as climate change, that also affect everything.

When I didn't concentrate on unity, I noticed that my mind was more occupied with individual thoughts, not necessary related to anything else. When thinking of "unity" I was thinking of relationships between things.



Natural Attraction Resonation

I was in for some surprises while doing the resonating activity.

We had just received one of the biggest snowfalls that I have seen since living in this valley. It was pretty magical and pretty wild. And, it made for wonderful natural attraction resonating connections.

First, I looked at the snow crystals that frosted my window pane. Thanking them and asking permission I began to feel my resonance with them by singing a tone that I felt represented them. They were so glorious especially as the evening light peeked out from a cloud illuminating their facets. I felt grateful for this program, without which I wouldn't have bothered to notice them, perhaps at all, that day.

Then, I walked across the street to return the snow shovels that I had borrowed from my neighbor. The sunset was bouncing light from pink cloud to blue shadow against a crystal clear blue sky. The light shown off the freshly fallen snow. Needless to say, I did not find this difficult to resonate with. My heart was full of gratitude for the moment.

As I walked back into the house I thought of the part of the assignment that asks us to resonate with a person that we like and a person that we don't. I noticed that I thought myself, "I don't know how I am going to do that part of the assignment because, I can't think of anyone I don't like!"

The moment I thought that I think I genuinely felt it, but I also sensed a little bit of superiority on my part in thinking it. I was in for a little humbling almost immediately.

When I got back in the house, I asked my son to take a break from his computer and then went to get changed. About a half hour later, my daughter came in to tell me that my son was still on the computer and then she proceeded to lecture me on my parenting skills. Hmmm? It seemed I had found someone not to like. I wasn't sure if it was my son for not respecting and obeying me, or if it was my daughter for trying to manipulate me by pushing my inadequate parenting buttons so that she could get on the computer, or if it was me for my lousy parenting.

I breathed and remembered that I told you all yesterday that I would do my resonating activity with my kids. O.K. well this was a little different than what I had imagined- but the ice crystals and sunset were still resonating in my body strengthening me. So, I imagined my children in my mind and breathing said "resonate" in a low tone to myself.

Something hard to describe began to happen. My feelings of hurt and anger were still there- but less painful. I think my ego was loosing its grip slightly. "Resonate, resonate," I repeated. Carlie's words drifted into my consciousness, "If I didn't have to judge this- could I love it?" "If I didn't have to judge them or myself, could I love them and myself." "If I didn't have to l prove myself as a worthy parent- could I be at peace....and could simply respond to what I felt love prompting me to do."

A quiet settled over me. I realized I had entered into unexplored territory. I scarcely knew what to do, or how to be without my judgments of them or myself. My ego asserted a few more attempts to win my peace. "How dare he disobey you! How dare she lecture you! You need to tell them off! How dare you try to be a parent!"

"Resonate....Resonate...Resonate." The natural attractions within me repeated.

"There is nothing to do." Carlie's words came again. "What is the truth about this?"

The truth is, "I am the power and presence of God in this world....and..."

Resonate... Resonate....Resonate... "So are they."

"Appreciate yourself for creating this situation. It is the perfect situation for you to discover who you are." the natural attractions whispered. "Appreciate yourself....Appreciate yourself....Appreciate yourself....and be Gentle with yourself"

 A guitar string was struck in my heart space. Its resonance reverberated into my body. Res......o........nance..........................

How can I describe this. Somehow, I felt strangely at peace with no need to fix anyone or even fix myself. Bizarre.

What came out of my mouth next surprised me.

"It's time for dinner, everybody!  Come join me."

The course guidebook notes that each time we resonate with a natural attraction through a different sense, we get to know the attraction and ourselves in a new, more fulfilling and holistic way.

I learned that my judgments about myself and others are one and the same thing. When I appreciate myself and am willing to be gentle with myself I can respond with a clearer mind. I also learned that resonating with someone else helps me to see them anew and helps me to see myself anew as well. This new perspective helps to free myself of my old pattern of self hatred and victim, and my ego's need to be right about them. It helps me to appreciate myself and them again.

I realize that this situation would probably have gone a whole different direction without my awareness of my natural attractions and the resonance activity. And not such a good direction. I am thankful that I had to do the assignment before this happened.

My self esteem was strengthened as I resonated with my natural attractions and as I appreciated myself. I discovered that when I resonate with someone, I can't dislike them.

When I awoke today, I felt at peace with myself and looked forward to being with my kids.

I will place in my consciousness an image of a guitar string sounding in my heart, its vibrations resonating out to fill my body and extending out to those I am with.

I found that am a person who enjoys resonating with snow crystals and who feels alive when I resonate with the sunset.
I let go of judgments of myself when I resonate with others.


 
Rainbow tranquility

I was attracted to the rainbow, the kids counted its colors loudly. I looked at it as the bridge I could walk across to search my inner nature.

This was not the first time I saw the rainbow. In Portland, it's easier to see one.  I felt so content to watch into the sky, the soft white clouds covered the sunlight of the sun, the rainbow had so many colors, the colors of life.

I raised my arms upwards, as if I was touching the rainbow, seeing its beauty and integrity through myself. How much I desired to find that pure soul inside me.  I looked at the kids, they all looked up and smiled, enjoyed what the rainbow brought to them. I then felt very proud of myself, I had the feeling that I wanted to be the rainbow, I wanted be the bridge connecting the kids with their inner nature, though I knew the inner child inside the kids have already been wakened.  The joy of the kids was so impressive, I really felt content by just standing there, watching the rainbow, sharing that moment, that peace and tranquility with the kids.

When I looked at the rainbow, I believed there was a rainbow inside me. I felt its gentle and colorful spirit, that cheerful spirit, encouraged me to stick to my belief...

Yes, I believe as a teacher, I have more power than I can see.  I gain this power from my connection with the kids, nature and all the species in nature


Nature love

Given the extreme cold temps (way below zero even without the wind chill) and the blizzard conditions this past week, I went to the local pet store hoping to find something creaturely and nature-filled to connect with. From the moment I walked through the door, I was acutely aware that it was clearly nothing like being immersed in nature. However, I enjoyed the fish, rabbits and assorted rodents, but was most attracted to the birds, particularly the canaries. I enjoyed watching the two little birds interact and listening to their sweet song. I felt a twinge of sadness - knowing that these little birds were taken from their natural home to be held captive for the pleasure of us, human-beings. I admire their adaptability.
 
I love these little birds because they are is playful, curious, tender, resilient.
 
I love myself because I am playful, curious, tender, resilient.
 
Initially, I hesitate as I read the statement and wondered if this really describes some aspect of me (now). For the most part I know that I am resilient and adaptable.  Although I truly believe that it is my nature to be playful, curious, and tender, (and is how I would have described myself a few years ago), I think that adjusting to the losses and life challenges presented by Parkinson’s disease, has caused me to be more serious, less inquisitive and maybe a little dispassionate in some ways. It makes me wonder if the natural systems within us shift, adjust or adapt in someway, too, when we experience chronic illness, trauma, etc. or if those attractions/characteristics just get buried underneath the stuff we have to do to cope/survive.
 
An Email group member's response to the above:

(Before I begin, note that I am writing this because I know Debby, and meet with her, usually once a week, in a professional and friendship manner). 


I found this so interesting, Debby, that you see yourself as less playful, tender, and curious (and ones you wouldn't normally associate with yourself now after the Parkinson) because those would be words you think would not describe you now. 

As I was reading this I thought, wow if she thinks she isn't like this anymore what WAS she like???  She must have been through the roof!!! 
Playful?  The woman who is cutting up in class and gives her buddy a bad time?
Tender?  The woman who came to me in prayer when I was feeling the weight of the world?.
Curious?  The woman that researches everything on the Internet and comes with arm loads of info. about grants?  What about you starting an art therapy program?
Dispassionate?  The woman who took a canoe trip this last summer who wasn't sure her physical body could withstand it but did it to support Parkinson's research and our program???
 
I think the natural attractions are more accurate than perhaps you want to believe.  They celebrate your innateness---your inner beauty.  This is what I see Debby, just what you saw in the birds!
 
Perhaps the disease makes you focus on different ways to use your playfulness, or curiosity or passion or the energy level you would give to it, but all those senses that you picked up on in the birds are vividly displayed!  In friendship,  June


Deeper sensitivity message

I decided to make a walk bare footed so that I could feel the earth! I slowly followed a path in undeveloped piece of land in the outskirts of the City of Kampala. I moved while observing different plants and insects. When I asked for permission to be connected the natural attractions of this environment, I was quickly attracted to a small plant (whose name I don't know). I was attracted to it because it folded its leaves when I accidentally rubbed against  it with my leg. The leaves moved upwards and folded like the hands of a human being raised upwards. The plant I am talking about is about 20 centimeters tall and the trunk is about the size of a needle of a sewing machine and purplish in color. I watched it closely and realized that after about 15 minutes, it started putting its leaves back to their original posture. But this was very difficult to notice. I could tell by seeing that the gap between the leaves was widening till all leaves lay almost in a straight line but opposite of one another. I almost uprooted to take it to the "botanist" for identification, but then quickly realized, I was going to harm a friendly plant that had revealed a lot about itself and I left it. May be I will carry a camera next time I visit this place so that friends can help me to get its botanical identification.

I was attracted to this small plant because it had a deeper message to me! I was able to learn that very often, we look at plants and think they are insensitive to things like touch stimulus! But this plant disapproved it. It quickly showed to me that they too, have senses and they respond to disturbances as a way of protection. I thanked this part of nature to have revealed more to me about itself. And I have a feeling that, this small plant could have represented other higher plants which may have low levels of responses to stimuli that are ignored by human beings and therefore, have continued to be destroyed since their tears can never be noticed!

I am happy to see that every time I visit nature, there is something new to learn about.

I am sad to notice that very few people appreciate nature.


A sustainable relationship

I was slowly walking through the snow.  I became immediately attracted to the ice frozen to the branches of a nearby leafy bush tree (of which I don?t know the name of).  As I was walking closer to it, the ice on top of the snow began to crack and my feet sunk in about 10 inches.  I proceeded to get close enough to the bush to touch it.  

With my gloved hand I caressed a few of the leaves and stroked the stems.  I could hear the ice begin to crack and the branches and leaves seemed so fragile between my fingers I knew if I kept touching them my desire to caress them would break off their natural attraction and I would have hurt the bush.  I stopped immediately and instead bent down to examine the bush from a different angle, from underneath.

As I lay there in the snow I gazed up at the wonderful oval shaped leaves. No longer did the bush appear white and lifeless, but instead I was greeted with its calming color green with only a small layer of ice over its surface, and the white outline of ice a fourth of an inch around each leaf.  As I looked up the snow was falling gently on my face melting as it made contact and all around I could hear the snow falling to the ground.  It was so peaceful and quiet, the movement of the snow towards me was so relaxing, my whole body felt numb and it was as if I could not move.

With a smile on my face I closed my eyes and took in all that was around me.  The soft touch of the snow on my face melting upon contact, seeping into my skin and into the many other objects around, the continual sound of the snow making contact, the smell of burning firewood, the cracking of ice from the trees and plants all around, and the fragile ground beneath me as I lay on top of the ice and snow.  It was breathless, especially the hidden beauty of this plant that was revealed simply from the shift in the angle at which it was seen.

I, perhaps, was the only one to have taken the time to appreciate the plants beauty. Although a part of me wishes for it to stay that way, so as for the plant not to be disturbed by too many people and their carelessness, the other part of me hopes someone saw me and has now discovered the amazing beauty of this plant, that would have otherwise gone unnoticed if it had not been for my attraction to nature.

In this activity I replaced the bird in the Mimbres design button first with an ice covered leaf, then with a snow covered tree, then with a snowflake.  In all three occasions, the sensory attraction of water and its life sustaining qualities along with the cycle at which it accomplishes such a task was alive and well in my senses and thoughts.  After wearing this pin for a few days the number one comment I received was, "What is this?"  A perfect way, as The Web of Life Imperative book describes, to begin a conversation about our need to connect with nature.  More specifically it usually began a brief discussion of the importance of recognizing and honoring Mother Nature and our connection to her, to recognize our self-destructive habits brought on by our dominate ways of thinking and being, and to find ways to reconnect with and relate to nature that do not strive to dominate and control, but rather to sustainably cooperate and coexist interdependently with her.



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